Anonymous asked: I'm really starting to hate how people, especially women, seem to think I'm less of a feminist because I enjoy being dominated in a safe environment with somebody I trust. I want to counter it with a valid argument but the concept that something somebody does or wears makes them believe in the rights of women any less than someone who hates men and wants to cover her body up from head to toe. I feel like you're insightful and you may be able to lay some wisdom on me.
-Isms, in general, are overrated. I have so many negative things to say about the 20-something pseudo-feminist who just makes angry posts on tumblr and facebook, who haven’t actually done anything constructive for the world, let alone for women. Why are you even telling them what you like in the bedroom? What you like is none of their business. Fuck em. Why are you trying to come up with a “valid argument”? “Lol fuck off” is a perfectly valid argument in this case.
Also, isn’t empowered about being able to make choices? Why would they want to disempower you and take away your right to choose what excites you in the bedroom?
Just remember, while you’re having good kinky sex with someone you trust, most of the people bemoaning the tragedy you are inflicting on women’s rights are probably having no sex at all, and, very likely, fantasizing about being spanked and being ashamed at the “wrongness” of it. I think you win.